bullying

Bullying is an issue that is more serious than most people think. Though it is seen all around us on the street and in media, many still do not recognize it as an issue. That is, till they see the effects on their own children. It is unfortunate that negative events must happen for society to want to take action. In recent years, more people are fighting and educating others against bullying. Organizations such as stopbullying.gov and even it gets better, have been created to inform, campaign against, and even aid teenagers who are victims to bullying.

Bullying comes in many forms, some less noticeable than others. It is used to make another individual feel low and unimportant.

Physical bullying-seems to be the most noticeable type of bullying. The bully in this situation tries to physically dominate another by fighting, punching, kicking, or any other physical act that is harmful. This method also is used to instill fear in their victim, or make them do something they otherwise would not do.

Verbal bullying-can be un noticed for a long period of time. Especially since others may not see the bully in the act. This is usually used to break down another’s self image. Verbal bullying includes constant teasing, degrading comments, and the use of a lot of sarcasm. This hurts the victims’ feelings and/or embarrasses them in front of other peers. This is also emotional bullying in a way. The bully will use any method, including verbal, to hurt another’s feelings.

Cyber bullying- is on the constant rise due to the increase of internet use. Instant messaging (IM), email, texting, and social networks such as facebook and twitter are all used in cyber bullying. This form of bullying is also used to embarrass and even humiliate another. Cyber bulling can be especially bad since it is hard to find a completely safe place online. Once something is uploaded whether it be a message or picture, it can never be completely taken off.

Physical bullying is most common with males where as females usually take to emotional and verbal forms of bullying. Females are also more likely to rejection as a way to bully another. Around thirty percent of teens in the United States have been involved in bullying whether they are the bully or the ones being bullied.

There are many ways to combat bullying. Telling an adult is the best way for younger children, but for teenagers, it may depend on the type of bullying. For instance, if the bullying is escalating toward a physical threat, from either side, then an adult or authority figure should be told. This is especially important because a repeat victim may want revenge which can be extremely dangerous.

Surviving a bully can be difficult. Some suicides unfortunately have developed from prolonged bullying. But it is possible to deal with. Walking away and ignoring the bully is a good way to show them that their behavior does not bother you. Most bullies do things to cause a scene or get a reaction from the victim and people around them. Holding back on your anger, talking, and finding your true friends can also help deal with a bully.